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Today we’re going to talk about this videos we’ve been talking about pretty much why are we doing this channel? What is the purpose of this channel and for her, My son, he’s Phoenix. He’s at school right now, there’s gonna be a lot of questions that are coming into her life or his life or even your right.
And through my experience and what I’ve gone through already, I think I have a good arsenal of answers for you guys in order to maybe help you in order to maybe put you on the right path maybe to lead and direct you know, because a lot of times, you have your parents you have people that you trust in and watch over, but listening to someone else’s experience or listen to someone else’s point of view is it’s pretty important. You know, they helped me a lot get through my times, there’s a lot of people that I’ve listened to a couple to mention is Ralph smart. I listened to obviously Joe Rogan for some stuff, but just more of him talking and listening. Elliott Hulse already who’s alive one not really YouTube channel. But there’s a lot of mentors, and there’s people that I listened to on YouTube that I have gotten a lot of information from. And I’ve used a lot of what they say, maybe not to the tee, but to a point where I always like to take things with a grain of salt. And that’s what I like to propose to you is not really have to listen to every single thing that I say because some of it may be nonsense, depending on how bad the ADHD is. But for the most part, like let it settle in, think about some situations, think about the tips that I may give you think about the experience that have I’ve gone through, and if they’re familiar to you, then hopefully it will help you. And the same time for me, I know that my time on this planet is not going to be forever, You know, and it sucks because a lot of people don’t like to think about that. And like you’re so depressed. You’re a depressive, anxious person for you to think like, That’s ridiculous. No, not think about it. It’s kind of ridiculous. Because it’s a fact it’s a true, you know, a lot of people don’t like to deal with that truth that life is going to be over, you know, but I want to make sure that at some point, if she has a question, great say, I don’t know, I’m dead.
And she’s what you’re gonna be 18 next year, she’ll be 18 next year, right? And she’s 18. And now what college do I want to go to? Am I making the right decision? This boy broke up with me, I you know, I’m not going to be there to answer those questions. I never want to feel that I’ve never done my part as a father to leave her in the dirt. Because if there’s any question that I can answer for her, whether she listens to it or not, at least maybe she’ll have a story in the background, or he’ll have a story in the background of, oh, wow, this is what my dad did. And this situation or this, my dad would say to me in this situation, Sometimes you just have to have that feeling. There’s a lot of people that get married, right, and now they’re their mother, father’s not there. And The only thing I really wish they were here at that moment for me yours and say the tough time maybe it’s not a good example. They say they have a tough time in their life. And you know, you pray and you sit down and you add, I really wish my dad was here at this point to help me get through this or help me give me an answer. And sometimes that’s what you need. And for me when I speak to this camera, I’m not only talking to the people that are watching him, specifically talking to these specifically giving them the answer what I think that should happen at this present moment. Sure, The answer may change with the next 10 years. But if I’m still making the videos, which I will be those will be other options and hopefully build and build and build a arsenal of questions for them to go to or glossary or an encyclopedia, an encyclopedia camera, and it’s like Wikipedia as maybe sage. Now maybe Sage may have a question for me when she wants to get married. And if she’s making the right decision, How do I know this person? Is the person that I want to marry? Well, I’m going to have the video for that. Why? Specifically, it’s not only because my time on this earth may not be long, Right? Or it may be forever, I don’t know, it will, my soul will be here forever. But my body In this form will not be here forever. I think I just found out the reason I want to do is because I just found out about like my parents, you know, I’m 40 right? I’m 40 Even though I look like an Asian 13 I’m 40 I’ve never really asked them, you know, the communication line between my parents was, Let’s get to work. Love you go to church, right? Let’s go to church a lot. Make sure we eat food, your homework, I love you. Let’s go out Let’s have fun with my TV. But I never did. I asked them questions about their lives, Never didn’t really ask some questions about who they were what they did ask them for advice. But sometimes to me, it was a biased advice, you know, based off religion based off experiences are just for them to protect me. So for me, it’s going to be before the situations come across as me protecting them, I would rather give an answer that I generally would say to someone else rather than than them. And I didn’t ask my parents anything, I really didn’t know their big story, which is going to be another video, that’ll be the next month long video today is going to be a long video of explaining why this channel is real, why it’s been developed. You know, I have another channel that I kind of just answer a lot of fitness questions. I did a lot of blogging on it. But it was something specific on that channel, you know, sure it helped our business was you know, I have a gym here in New Jersey, and it’s personal training studio group fitness, or group training that helped me develop that. So this channel specifically is to develop people, you know, develop people, through satellite through experience through being in situations from wherever it is life is thrown at me. One thing that I know is that I don’t look at I guess you can say challenges or, or life situations something negative as as much as they feel negative In at the time or at the time that feels terrible, you know, through the challenges that you go through. But when you break through those challenges, and you find your way through it, that is where that resiliency comes in, you learn you know, I never said like I mean video before talking about failure, I don’t look at failure, as as bad. You know, I feel a lot sure it hurts your ego. Sure you cry. Sure you have anxiety, you want to hurt someone hurt yourself. But once all that storm settles, it’s a lot more comforting to know that you already messed up 1000 times in order to find the right way to be successful. This is just the channel of my failures. It’s just a channel of me missing up in life and missing up more because I’m going to I think I feel like my wife tells me every day that I mess up a lot. And it’s, it’s true, you know, and that’s the hardest part. It’s not an argument of she’s right or I’m wrong, I’m usually wrong. And a lot of time she’s right, but it’s hard to eat that. So instead of act like a prick sometimes, but there’s always some salt that you can take from that grain of salt. So that’s what I always say, whenever I listen to someone, or listen to something or I go to seminar or listen to a podcast, I Don’t try to mimic and just copy what it is they do or what they say. I like to think about it and apply it to how it would work for me. Because I’m not that person. There’s a lot of things that they may tell me, which may be helpful in the long run. At the same time, when you have a question, you have a question? And you have to ask me, I know you’re gonna get mad at it, Right? But there’s gonna be a little bit of peace that’s going to make you think and say things that make you go
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in life in her hands smells like maple syrup. So disgusting. Just you know, I don’t like maple syrup. Now she’s touching my face. You know, like I said, this, this channel, If you hang out long enough and it could get through the mumble jumble of what I say sometimes I’ll try to be as direct as I can. I don’t like to script I like to know what I’m talking about. But I don’t like to script things not writing things down for it to be perfect. I’m not making these videos to make them perfect or flashy or catchy. I just hope that this information is something that can walk away with and in some life situation that you may have. You may have your brother man Phoenix’s over there may be some of these answers or some of my experiences that will tell you in stories will help influence you to do better to to to make a decision maybe not an easy decision maybe not the right decision but you’re just you know I don’t think there’s such thing as the right decision It’s what it is you want what is the answer the path that you want to get into Because the way I may see the path going or the end game going may be different than yours. So I can always suggest an answer I could always suggest a method or
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but the same time it’s up to you to do that to make a choice it’s up to you to make that decision to see if that tip is going to help you at all Hopefully you guys hang out longer and if you haven’t make sure you guys subscribe and hit the little bell turn on those notifications but this will be the end of the video of explaining why we’re making this channel and like I said guys, we only have years you know and years ago fat on this planet. So Let’s make the decisions the right one That’s going to help live your best life. So I’ll See you guys later is pm and I’ll talk to you guys later seed say goodbye.